Hi There,
I'm going to talk about child nutrition and my philosophies. (Please don't take what I say as expert advice, only the views of one vegan mom. Always do your own research.)
K, Thanks,
Steph
I find my Mom philosophies on food are a balance between several different things: Is it healthy? Is it tasty? Does it have a good nutritional profile? Have we been missing anything lately?
Will he eat it? Can I make several meals out of it? Is it processed crap? Does it have too much sugar? Does it contain nuts (and so is not allowed to be sent to school)? How much energy do I have today? What is in the fridge and pantry?
Does he want to help?
A phrase I recently heard and loved was "
The healthiest life you can enjoy" - Adam Bornstein. This drives much of my decision-making in the kitchen.
I think I am like most moms in that I try and do my best for my kids. Food is a primary focus for me because I feel I have the chance, at least three times a day, to give my family love, nourishment, and pleasure. At the same time I am teaching my son (soon my daughter) about what is good food. I'm developing a tradition for him that will impact him for the rest of his life.
I didn't have a strong food tradition in my family growing up (as a mish-mash of heritages with little input from older generations), but my husband has so many delicious memories from his Polish grandparents. His parents were somewhat experimental in their food as well, often trying new things. I would like to build for my family a tradition as rich as this. But it's gonna look a little different. A little more in line with our values, and yes, a little more vegan. I stay vegan for many reasons, the foremost of which is that I feel it is overall better for the world (environmentally and socially). We are blessed to live in a place where there is enough choice in our food that this is a healthy, delicious, and fun way to live. I'd like these values to shine through in the food tradition I make for our family. Part of this is involving my children in our good food - from farm to plate - by helping grow some of it,
visiting the farms where it is grown, the markets where it is sold, and helping get it on the table.
I read a lot about child nutrition to make sure my child gets all he needs, but the very nature of nutrition science means this can be an elusive topic, so I keep going back to the well for motivation as well as the latest information. There are many who say you can get all you need from whole plant foods. I think you can get what you need most of the time. Kids are funny, though, eating the same thing several days in a row and shunning what you are sure they will love. Supplementing is not a bad word, and it keeps me from worrying too much that we are missing something during a critical development stage and I-will-forever-screw-up-my-child-because-I-wasn't-ever-vigilant, (if you think I'm crazy, have a kid). The worst thing that will happen is that I will waste some money. And just because you can get everything, doesn't mean it's always optimal. This would be true if my child wasn't vegan.
I don't think his nutrition would be any better if he wasn't vegan.
Still with me? I watched
this video recently by Jack Norris and it actually reassured me that I was doing pretty well. That soy milk I send to school? It's a good way to supplement for a bunch of things. I will still put DHA oil in my son's oatmeal. I'm going to keep using iodized salt because we don't have seaweed often. I'll continue to hide greens in everything I can. And the most surprising thing I discovered? Vegan kids can get too much fiber! That occasional refined grain is not the worst thing in the world.
Here are some of the resources I go to for nutritional information:
http://www.veganhealth.org/, Jack Norris, RD
http://www.brendadavisrd.com/, Brenda Davis, RD (saw her at
Veg Fest in Toronto - love her! She co-wrote
Becoming Vegan, a resource I turn to and lend out often)
http://www.theveganrd.com/, Ginny Messina, RD
Bottom line, I know that healthy food is a common theme for many mothers. When I start obsessing, I have to tell myself:
We do our best. It's enough.